I remember thinking as a young girl that things are not what they seem. Our life’s journey is so much deeper than what we see and experience. It is not so much about what you are going through, but how you respond to whatever it is that you are going through. We all have and will continue to experience things that will provide an opportunity (for some a challenge) for growth. It’s our perspective that will help shape our experience and guide our actions.
It is more about what we need to learn from our experiences. I know it is easier said than done at times. But if we stop blaiming ourself and/or others for what we experience and take responsibility for our beliefs, thoughts, and actions and ask “what am I to learn” instead of “who can I blame”, we may start to see the world and our journey in a different light.